Why God Allows Pain

This is one of the best explanations of why God allows pain and suffering that I have seen... 

A man went to a barbershop to have his hair cut and his beard trimmed.
As the barber began to work, they began to have a good conversation.
They talked about so many things and various subjects.
When they eventually touched on the subject of God, the barber said:
"I don't believe that God exists."
"Why do you say that?" asked the customer. "Well, you just have to go out in the street to realize that God doesn't exist.
Tell me, if God exists, would there be so many sick people?
Would there be abandoned children?

If God existed, there would be neither suffering nor pain.
I can't imagine a loving God who would allow all of these things."
The customer thought for a moment, but didn't respond because he didn't want to start an argument.
The barber finished his job and the customer left the shop.

Just after he left the barbershop, he saw a man in the street with long, stringy, dirty hair and an untrimmed beard.
He looked dirty and unkempt. The customer turned back and entered the barber shop again and he said to the barber:
"You know what? Barbers do not exist."
"How can you say that?" asked the surprised barber.
"I am here, and I am a barber. And I just worked on you!"
"No!" the customer exclaimed. "Barbers don't exist because
if they did, there would be no people with dirty long hair and untrimmed beards, like that man outside."

"Ah, but barbers DO exist! That's what happens when people do not come to me."
"Exactly!" affirmed the customer. "That's the point! God, too, DOES exist!
That's what happens when people do not go to Him and don't look to Him for help.
That's why there's so much pain and suffering in the world."

IJAZAT CHAHTA HOON
Khud ko is dil main basane ki ijazat de do
Mujh ko tum apna banane ki Ijazat de do

Tum meri zindagi ka aik haseen lamha ho
Phoolon se khud ko sajane ki Ijazat de do

Main kitna chahta hoon kis tarha bataoon tumhain
Mujhe yeh aaj batane ki ijazat de do

Tumhari raat si zulfon main chand sa chehra
Mujhe yeh sham sajane ki Ijazat de do

Mujhe qaid kar lo apne ishq main or
Yeh jaan tum pe lootane ki Ijazat de do

Why does Love hurt so much?

Love hurts so much because we allow it to hurt. It's human nature. Getting hurt is a part of life. Its how you handle the hurt or how you allow it to affect you. When two people are in a relationship there are good times and bad times being in a relationship is a great feeling. 

Knowing that you have a person that loves you is such a wonderful thing. But sometimes people put to much faith in other people and then when that person doesn't live up to the other persons expectations then there are a huge amount of disappointment and hurt. Why do we allow other people to control our emotions? 

A broken heart really is one of the worst feelings in the world. When you find out somebody that you love, somebody that you gave such a huge part of yourself to betrayed you, is indescribable. You feel this pain in the middle of your chest and it literally just aches. It hurts oh so bad! And then the tears and crying set in. opinion you do need to allow yourself to grieve. You need to accept everything that has happened and then you just need to look inside yourself to find the courage and strength needed to move on. This is so much easier said than done. It is a part of life. One thing we have to learn is when one door closes three more usually open. 

Everything happens for a reason . You must be strong and simply commit to yourself. 

USEFULL THINGS

• 60 USE OF SALT
  * Soak stained hankies in salt water before washing.
  * Sprinkle salt on your shelves to keep ants away.
  * Soak fish in salt water before descaling; the scales will come off easier.
  * Put a few grains of rice in your salt shaker for easier pouring.
  * Add salt to green salads to prevent wilting...
  * Test the freshness of eggs in a cup of salt water; fresh eggs sink; bad ones float.
  * Add a little salt to your boiling water when cooking eggs; a cracked egg will stay in its shell this way.
  * A tiny pinch of salt with egg whites makes them beat up fluffier.
  * Soak wrinkled apples in a mildly salted water solution to perk them up.
  * Rub salt on your pancake griddle and your flapjacks won't stick.
  * Soak toothbrushes in salt water before you first use them; they will last longer.
  * Use salt to clean your discolored coffee pot.
  * Mix salt with turpentine to whiten you bathtub and toilet bowl.
  * Soak your nuts in salt brine overnight and they will crack out of their shells whole. Just tap the end of the shell with a hammer to break it open easily.
  * Boil clothespins in salt water before using them and they will last longer.
  * Clean brass, copper and pewter with paste made of salt and vinegar, thickened with flour
  * Add a little salt to the water your cut flowers will stand in for a longer life.
  * Pour a mound of salt on an ink spot on your carpet; let the salt soak up the stain.
  * Clean your iron by rubbing some salt on the damp cloth on the ironing surface.
  * Adding a little salt to the water when cooking foods in a double boiler will make the food cook faster.
  * Use a mixture of salt and lemon juice to clean piano keys.
  * To fill plaster holes in your walls, use equal parts of salt and starch, with just enough water to make a stiff putty.
  * Rinse a sore eye with a little salt water.
  * Mildly salted water makes an effective mouthwash. Use it hot for a sore throat gargle.
  * Dry salt sprinkled on your toothbrush makes a good tooth polisher.
  * Use salt for killing weeds in your lawn.
  * Eliminate excess suds with a sprinkle of salt.
  * A dash of salt in warm milk makes a more relaxing beverage.
  * Before using new glasses, soak them in warm salty water for awhile.
  * A dash of salt enhances the taste of tea. ?
  * Salt improves the taste of cooking apples.
  * Soak your clothes line in salt water to prevent your clothes from freezing to the line; likewise, use salt in your final rinse to prevent the clothes from freezing.
  * Rub any wicker furniture you may have with salt water to prevent yellowing.
  * Freshen sponges by soaking them in salt water.
  * Add raw potatoes to stews and soups that are too salty.
  * Soak enamel pans in salt water overnight and boil salt water in them next day to remove burned-on stains.
  * Clean your greens in salt water for easier removal of dirt.
  * Gelatin sets more quickly when a dash of salt is added.
  * Fruits put in mildly salted water after peeling will not discolor.
  * Fabric colors hold fast in salty water wash...
  * Milk stays fresh longer when a little salt is added.
  * Use equal parts of salt and soda for brushing your teeth.
  * Sprinkle salt in your oven before scrubbing clean.
  * Soaked discolored glass in a salt and vinegar solution to remove stains..
  * Clean greasy pans with a paper towel and salt.
  * Salty water boils faster when cooking eggs.
  * Add a pinch of salt to whipping cream to make it whip more quickly.
  * Sprinkle salt in milk-scorched pans to remove odor.
  * A dash of salt improves the taste of coffee...
  * Boil mismatched hose in salty water and they will come out matched.
  * Salt and soda will sweeten the odor of your refrigerator.
  * Cover wine-stained fabric with salt; rinse in cool water later.
  * Remove offensive odors from stove with salt and cinnamon.
  * A pinch of salt improves the flavor of cocoa.
  * To remove grease stains in clothing, mix one part salt to four parts alcohol.
  * Salt and lemon juice? Removes mildew.
  * Sprinkle salt between sidewalk bricks where you don't want grass growing.
  * Polish your old kerosene lamp with salt for a better look.
  * Remove odors from sink drainpipes with a strong, hot solution of salt water.
  * If a pie bubbles over in your oven, put a handful of salt on top of the spilled juice. The mess won't smell and will bake into a dry, light crust which will wipe off easily when the oven has cooled.
  
  IMPORTANT HEALTH FACTS
  Don't put your mobile closer to your ears until the recipient answers, because directly after dialing, the mobile phone would use it's maximum signaling power,Which is: 2watts =33dbi. Please Be Careful. Please use left ear while using cell (mobile), because if you use the right one it may affect brain directly. This is a true fact from Apollo medical team.
  Do not drink APPY FIZZ . It contains cancer causing agent. Don't eat Mentos before or after drinking Coke or Pepsi coz the person will die immediately as the mixture becomes cyanide. Please fwd to whom u care.
  Don't eat kurkure because it contains high amount of plastic if U don't Believe burn kurkure n u can see plastic melting. Please forward to all !!!!!!!!! !! News report from Times of India.
  Avoid these tablets as they are very dangerous:
  1. D-Cold 2. Vicks action-500 3. Actified 4.. Coldarin 5. Co some 6. Nice 7. Nimulid8. Cetrizet-D
  They contain Phenyl- Propanol -Amide PPA. Which Causes strokes, and these tablets are already banned in U.S.
  Cotton Ear Buds... (Must read it)
• Please do not show sympathy to people selling buds on roadside or at Signals by buying their ear buds (instead you can give them money without taking their ear buds)..... Just wanted to warn you people not to buy those packs of ear buds you get at the roadside. Those were made from cotton that has already been used in hospitals. They take all the dirty, blood and pus filled cotton, wash it, bleach it and use it to make ear buds. So, unless you want to become the first person in the world to get Herpes Zoster Oticus (a viral infection of the inner, middle, and external ear) of the ear and that too from a cotton bud, DON'T BUY THEM! It's important that - We need to take care of our health, other than NONE.